Re: changing time: i never tryed to wear 2 or 3 disposable diapers on at the same time. i never really understod it. i never been changed by someone ether. I agree. I hear of people wearing 2 or 3 diapers and never really understood it myself. At first, I thought it was something these photographers do to make the diaper look full, but seems people actually do wear 2 or more diapers. Anyone here that does, can you please elighten us as to why this is? yeah 2 or 3 diaper i think is just silly kinda of a waste of the diaper. i tryed it the other day and it was...well....sucked....but i guess if your into that well go for it more power to you...enjoy but i really would to like to hear why people wear 2 or more.

Re: changes: well its jsut that i dont think its fair for me to change someone and them not return the favor, and visa versa, if someone were to change me if change them. yeah i see where your coming from.

I don't know guys. I much rather prefer to be changed then to changing someone else. I suppose it's just I like the ageplay side of things. Being changed brings the infantalism out in me, but changing someone else doesn't. But don't despaire!!!!! I'll change a wet diaper, but haven't tried changing someone elses pooped diaper.

Well, I'm all for disposables over cloth, mostly for the same reasons, but also because they just seem to much more secure than the cloth ones. As to the fantasy thing, I'm not so sure. Being single and living with my parents (I'm only 18, but am saving up to buy rather than rent) doesn't give one much room to engage in anything even remotly AB, possilbly which is why I am still more a DL than an AB. However, I would much rather play with another baby at silly things, rather than having a babysitter. I guess it's more interesting to play innocent when you have another innocent with you... I'm not into the whole "punish you for being naughty" side of things, so I imagine that play would be better.