Since I discovered disposable's which are only good when wet. It is rnnot until they get wet and form to the body do they feel great. That is why I prefer these to cloth. For cloths to form to the body or feel wet you need to piss a few times or a lot to get the same feeling as disposables.

After reading reviews, I tried the attends. I have to agree next to Molicare, the best adult disposable diaper I have had on. Much improved over the last time I tried attends, about 5 years ago.

Hi, perhaps they are not noticable enough, or people may think it is a medical problem that you are sensitive about. Or perhaps others are scared off by the fact that you are there with another woman (ie your wife). Welcome too.

I found attends are very soft and hold alot. They absorb well because i havent gotten a rash in a whle. I also recomend depends overnight. The best diaper on the market. Fits snug between the legs, with very little bulkiness. Smells like a diaper should smell like. A Bit on the noisy side but for those of us who are prod to display our diapers, this is not a problem. I like these a lot as they have three tapes on each side and have a very soft outer plastic cover which is softer when there warm. They do make some noise, but are quieter than many on the market and have the softest outer plastic cover.