Changing vs being changed: Well I for one prefer being the 'daddy type' exclusively (diaper-er vs diaper-e I guess) We are all so diverse so who knows why we are 'wired' the way we are. However, I positively LOVE the experience of babying girls. I don't know if anyone else if familiar with the experience, but there is this almost electric feeling, all the little hairs sort of stand up on the back of neck when they really get into it. It is really a euphoric feeling that can last for long, wonderful periods of time. Not only that; Brandon you look so dang adorable as little baby girl I almost hurt myself hugging the monitor!

Used to wear Attends, but hard to change in public bathrooms, now wear pull-on style. Just as absorbant, and nice and bulky, easy to change. Just rip off sides, and pull up new one. (Usually wear three, and can change twice while out. Just pull up new one. Always wear nice, full, plastic pants over, and never had leaks. Can do a full bladder release in front of anyone, without them knowing. Where do you wear your's out to?

I have found Attends to be a very good diaper especially when baby needs to leave a big mess.

Well, I'm all for disposables over cloth, mostly for the same reasons, but also because they just seem to much more secure than the cloth ones. As to the fantasy thing, I'm not so sure. Being single and living with my parents (I'm only 18, but am saving up to buy rather than rent) doesn't give one much room to engage in anything even remotly AB, possilbly which is why I am still more a DL than an AB. However, I would much rather play with another baby at silly things, rather than having a babysitter. I guess it's more interesting to play innocent when you have another innocent with you... I'm not into the whole "punish you for being naughty" side of things, so I imagine that play would be better.