Changing vs being changed: Well I for one prefer being the 'daddy type' exclusively (diaper-er vs diaper-e I guess) We are all so diverse so who knows why we are 'wired' the way we are. However, I positively LOVE the experience of babying girls. I don't know if anyone else if familiar with the experience, but there is this almost electric feeling, all the little hairs sort of stand up on the back of neck when they really get into it. It is really a euphoric feeling that can last for long, wonderful periods of time. Not only that; Meow you look so dang adorable as little baby girl I almost hurt myself hugging the monitor!

I know a lot of people like these, but they are almost twice as expensive as Depend Briefs and hold only 41% as much as Molicare.

Thought I'd add my two cents and say attends are good diapers. Babyish, and like other reviewers, I love the smell. I wish Paper-Pak would come around though, and put leak guards in them. It would make them a better night time diaper.

I found attends are very soft and hold alot. They absorb well because i havent gotten a rash in a whle. I also recomend depends overnight. The best diaper on the market. Fits snug between the legs, with very little bulkiness. Smells like a diaper should smell like. A Bit on the noisy side but for those of us who are prod to display our diapers, this is not a problem. I like these a lot as they have three tapes on each side and have a very soft outer plastic cover which is softer when there warm. They do make some noise, but are quieter than many on the market and have the softest outer plastic cover.