Changing vs being changed: Well I for one prefer being the 'daddy type' exclusively (diaper-er vs diaper-e I guess) We are all so diverse so who knows why we are 'wired' the way we are. However, I positively LOVE the experience of babying girls. I don't know if anyone else if familiar with the experience, but there is this almost electric feeling, all the little hairs sort of stand up on the back of neck when they really get into it. It is really a euphoric feeling that can last for long, wonderful periods of time. Not only that; TukTaan you look so dang adorable as little baby girl I almost hurt myself hugging the monitor!

Re: changes: well its jsut that i dont think its fair for me to change someone and them not return the favor, and visa versa, if someone were to change me if change them. yeah i see where your coming from.

I find Attends diapers fine for moderate to heavy wettings but not that great for heavy to total loss of control. the worst part of it is the tapes. they hold ok for a short time. but after a while, they start to come undone. which doesn't help protect your clothes very well

I'll have to agree with that one :). It is always nice to dream about anything, but waking up can be hard... such as dreaming I am a child again, with no job to worry about, or personal life, only to wake up to reality. Ah well, at least I am still young ;). I still wouldn't trade my life for another. I like this life, and I think I'll keep living it.